Are you new to Swimming??
New swimmers often tell me that they can’t put their faces in the water, but no one ever has a problem with this when it comes to the lesson. So far, I have not had anyone who hasn’t been able to do it within about five minutes. There are simple techniques I use to overcome this fear and they always seem to work.
Once you can put your face in the water, you can float. More or less everyone floats. Occasionally you do come across someone who is less buoyant than most, but this just means they need a little bit more forward propulsion to actually swim or they may float a little lower down – more under the surface – than most. However, fear and tension mean that people hold themselves stiffly and, by hunching their heads or shoulders, they unintentionally push their feet towards the bottom of the pool.
When we are afraid, the natural reaction is to pull the legs up underneath the body – to curl up into a foetal position. This is not conducive to swimming. So the first thing I do is to get the person to lie flat on the water with their face in it and to let me pull them along gently, holding their hands.
The biggest fear for many people is taking their feet off the bottom when they have nothing to hold on to. One woman described it as a “fear of gaps” – like when you step from the platform to the train. Another said it was like the moment when you fall asleep and the feeling of falling jerks you awake. Letting go is the hardest part to teach because so much of it is in the mind. Many people are fine as long as they can hold my hands but, as soon as they try to let go, panic sets in and – even though I don’t feel it myself – I can see that it is a real, deep-seated fear.
Teaching swimming has taught me so much about fear itself. Fear keeps us safe, but it also prevents us from moving forward. If you are frightened and try to hold on to the water, you can’t swim. It is only by letting go and trusting that the water will hold you up that you can learn to swim. This is far more important than technique, but it takes time. Trust me!!!!!!!